“I used to really get annoyed with myself for not being able to just be up and ready and start the day.
Now I know my brain works differently, and I’ve stopped punishing myself for it.”
In this episode, Tania Gerard shares how ADHD self-awareness changed the way she treats herself, works, and lives. She talks openly about slower mornings, letting go of “normal,” hyperfocus, burnout, and the relief that comes from finally understanding how your brain actually works.
If you’ve struggled with ADHD, late diagnosis, self-judgment, burnout, or feeling like you’re constantly failing invisible expectations, this conversation explores what shifts when awareness turns into self-acceptance, and why working with your brain matters more than fixing it.
Tania Gerard is an Accessible Marketing Consultant, Keynote Speaker and Founder of Tania Gerard Digital UK, one of the UK’s first consultancies focused on accessible marketing and neurodiversity. She works with companies to improve accessibility, inclusion and digital communication for diverse audiences.
Episode Highlights
00:05:26 — Learning to stop punishing herself Tania explains how self-awareness helped her recognize she was constantly blaming herself for not coping like others. Accepting how her brain works allowed her to prepare for environments instead of judging herself afterward.
00:08:33 — Hyperfocus as a strength and a cost She describes hyperfocus as both a superpower and a risk. Getting days of work done in hours often comes at the expense of bodily needs and rest.
00:12:00 — What accessible marketing really means Tania breaks down accessible marketing as making content easier for everyone to understand and act on. It’s not about compliance, but reducing friction for real human brains.
00:18:00 — Burnout, rest, and “potato days” She shares how ignoring rest eventually forces it upon you. Planned rest becomes essential fuel, not a reward for productivity.
00:23:22 — Visual systems to support an ADHD brain Tania explains how sticky notes, color, and visual cues help her manage overwhelm and follow through. External systems reduce cognitive load when memory and focus fluctuate.
00:37:13 — Accepting slower mornings and letting go of “normal” She reflects on how ADHD self-awareness changed her mornings. Waking up slower became an act of self-respect instead of something to fix.
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